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admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

...Anyway, what is going on up in here? I have to say that this is truly some mess.

Here is my brief synapsis for you all:

Men cheat. Women cheat.

It is not genetic...A man can lust. A woman can lust.

All women are not emotional like you think. Some women got game and run game on men all the time! Trust me, I should know. Some just want to have it and be done with it. All men are not dogs. Some of them are actually very sensitive and respectful.

The truth of the matter is that anyone can cheat/be tempted at anytime. You must pray so that you will not find yourself in these situations. A man does not have the right to go cheat just because his "wee-wee" rises. A woman doesn't have the right either.

For the married people out there:
DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSES. I don't care if it is for the thrill. You better teach your spouse some new tricks to keep it going. For you men or women that are cheating, your spouse knows about it. You think they don't, then you are really a PUNK! Everyone that knows me knows I hate cheating. Talk about a way to break up a family. All these people talking about God wanted this and that? Whew, who is your God? I do believe that God intended for man to have one wife...not one wife and ten booty call partners on the side. (ooh, repent now!)

In reality, an issue that has not been brought up is that where is the respect for your spouse? You think it is cute that you went out there and put your body into another person. The sick thing about it is that you then bring your nasty behind home and try to have relations with your spouse. Yall know that is just nasty.

BIG ISSUE AT HAND:
If you are out here doing these behaviors, think about all the diseases you could be bringing home like HIV/AIDS, herpes, syphillis, vaginitis, and all this other mess. You think it's cute now, check it out ten years later when you are suffering from HIV talking about the mistakes of the past. I don't want to hear that old issue of "but I always use a condom". I bet you do but who knows if that pretty young thing you are sleeping with has put tiny holes in the condom and now you and her have AIDS together. Isn't that so sweet and special. All for ten minutes of hollering, ooh ahhing for a lifetime of pain. Is it really worth it.

I'm pissed, yeah, I really am because I know someone that is cheating on their wife and he thinks it is cute. If I were a man, I would kick his ass (I don't curse but I am a bit peeved today, yall done made me act a fool this morning) all over the place and I would take him to an AIDS hospital to see where this is going. Another reason I am pissed because a lady at my church was married for approximately 20 years. Guess what, her husband was cheating on her with another man. SHE NOW HAS AIDS.....

Life is too short to be out here TRYING TO SATISFY the FLESH. Satisfy the flesh one time too many and see where you end up?

One more note: For all you men and women out there yielding to temptation, you just a PUNK (yeah, it's my word of the day!) anyway. I do have a question for you, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU HAD A DAUGHTER AND SHE WAS MARRIED AND HER PUNK HUSBAND WAS OUT THERE SPREADING HIS SPERM TO THE WORLD? SHE WOULD BE HURT BUT WOULD YOU TELL HER THAT IS ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR AND SHOULD DEAL WITH IT?

People, be real and stop playing games. This is serious and this behavior is detrimental to your family. It's not fun and games anymore. Be responsible adults and stop using God, science, and genetics for piss poor excuses for your cheating.

I am refreshed now
LadyK
11/18/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

I knew that was coming sooner than later!

Sola
11/18/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

You should know me by now.......

LadyK
11/18/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

Your observations are a breath of fresh air in this pretty twisted thread.

Ife3
11/24/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

Thanks Ife, I really appreciate your kind words.

LadyK
11/24/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

Hi Sola, I don't think Ife means twisted like what you think. As far as the men winning, it ain't about that at all. It's about principal and respect which some people lack according to some of the statements presented here. My point was to say that some men and women both cheat and I feel they can control it. The bigger picture at hand is the after effects of this behavior. This is why I brought up the issue of AIDS, unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases, mental illness (depression) and other things that will come from this behavior.

Walk a mile in someone's shoes that has had this happen to them. Don't be blinded by evil. Open your eyes and let the sunshine fall in. I see that no one answered my question I presented earlier. I assume because no one had an answer for it.

Seriously though, this behavior is horrific. A wise man (my father) once told me that sex is a good thing and you will not want to stop it but if you are married, you need to be committed to the one your with. What's so wrong about obeying this simple rule? Was God wrong when he said thou shalt not covet another man's wife? Better to not be asking God questions or making the scriptures suit your behavior.

Sola, you know not to get me started....one of these days I'll come right through this computer and break some sense off into the people with this ill thinking.

I mean well but I have seen this stuff time after time and the effects that it has had on families. You can read about this all over the internet. If one of you are doing this behavior, stop now, repent, and seek help for your addiction. If you don't know where to get help, go to your local church and ask. Check online.

STOP CHEATING NOW COALITION FOUNDED BY LadyK

LadyK
11/24/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404

Waka,

I think God saw how "pitiful" man was alone...and created us lovely creatures to help them out.

Men cheat for different reasons. Most of all because of no "self control" ..it can be controlled MEN.
They cheat because of "greed". Plain and simple. They cheat because they feel it is their right to have "one than one". Thats why the world is dieing slowly because of HIV/AIDS..
mostly I believe because men who can't keep IT IN.
A quick thrill is all you get out it, besides sometimes a STD or even worse AIDS. Is it worth it??

I dont' believe all men are DOGS in heat who have no"self control". I use to say that, but ALL men are not the same..Thank God.....................

Blackqueen
12/4/03

admin · Site Admin Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 5404