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Whew Muskan, even I got played by a Naija man a few years back but I ain't sweating it now. Girl, anyone can hurt you but you must move on!!!
LadyK
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Why all ya'll thinking i got played? contrary to all assumptions. i am just saying it the way it is. i have a wonderful man who is good to me and he is from Nigeria so how about that? i do not beat around the bush if ya'll want opinion on Nigerian women i will give you the full 411 i a'int playin. brothas y'all know i am telling the truth so what is the problem, please face reality do not pretend as if Nigerian men are the bomb, some of them are but not all. i got a little bit pissed off when i saw everybody reply sayin Nigerian men are the s*** wake up and smell the cofee, Don't be trying to link my personal life style with the response i wrote men come on that is kinda low... i still love you all though.
Muskan
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:19 am Post subject: |
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Love you too Muskan!
You had us scared for a hot minute! I think that the most special man in the world is the one you are with and my husband just happens to be a Naija man!
LadyK
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:24 am Post subject: |
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| Cxsm wrote: | Here are some of the responses that were posted.
| Quote: | Wait a minute, give Nigerian men a chance. Look at all aspects of life, from sport to politics, to academia, to film industry, there are Nigerian men fluorishing.
Not because we are so much better than everyone else, but because we believe that if one wants to do something - it is to do it with the aim of being the best - AMBITION.
That is the watchword here, we have a place to go and go there! Not content with mediocracy, the sky is our goal. If it is sweeping, we must be the best sweeper; if it is sport, the same.
This is the quality that women find attractive, and also we're not bad-looking either! |
And for laughter- another response.
| Quote: | We Nigerian men are the sh**, god darn!
We got the big long long john silver if you know what I mean.
Compared to white guys with little wiwi, 'We' are the champions all over the world.
***** Love maker, Kamasutra specialists, 'We' are the women's doctor all over the world.
That's what is special about Nigerian Men.
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I actually heard that Nigerian men aren't good lovers. 
Is that true??
Missy Alaukwu
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:27 am Post subject: |
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| Missy Alaukwu wrote: | I actually heard that Nigerian men aren't good lovers.
Is that true?? |
Look, for the record, no one's complained about me! And I am a Nigerian man!
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:30 am Post subject: |
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| Sola wrote: | | Look, for the record, no one's complained about me! And I am a Nigerian man! |
I'm not saying you --- don't take offense.
Everytime I read the sex forums on Nigerian websites, there is always a mention that Nigerian men aren't good lovers. I have never been with a Nigerian man but everytime I ask that question (to my friends), of course they say it's not true. But don't worry, I believe you.
Missy Alaukwu
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:37 am Post subject: |
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Re: What's So Special About Nigerian Men?
Yes, Nigerian men all the way. True that Nigerian men to me are very ambtious people. I'm also going to marry a Nigerian man, just like my mother also says because theywill treat me good. To me it seems that with Nigerian man, they respect you better and they have strong values. I love how they take their family responsibilities very seriously. Family comes first with Nigerian men. (Let me say.... I have male Nigerian friends and I was just comparing them to my male American friends, of the same age).
I also love their accents. With Nigerian men conversations get deep. They have qualities that I find amazing. Their manners, way of life, dedication and drive are very attractive to me. My Nigerian friends are always encouraging me to do and be better. Yes, Nigerian men can teach other men some valuable life lessons. Nigerian men are easier for me to talk to about anything w/o judgement from them. You guys are so sensitive.
Naija men are not perfect. Yes, Nigerian men are nice, educated, hard working and intellectually stimulating but on that same scale of being romantic, I give them a 3.5 and that's with extra credit.  Nigerian men brag about sex all the time. My girlfriend, who is dating a Nigerian man, says her b/f have a big-man-dingo but can't work with it; and it's a shame he has it and don't know how to use it and that he is selfish in bed (and this is not the first time I heard this). Nigerian men are possessive and controlling. Nigerian men are also hard-headed and stubborn and are quick to jump to conclusions and can curse you out if they feel you did them wrong. And Nigerian men are like American men but sneakier. Let's not talk about the way they dress.
................and I want a Nigerian man.
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:38 am Post subject: |
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mrs alaukwu God bless you my sister, Gosh ! some people felt like i was making this s*** up.
Muskan
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:40 am Post subject: |
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Can we stop generalizing here. Please be more specific.Comments like "The Nigerian men I have dated are........", "I've heard that some Nigerian men are.......", or the Nigerian men I've met personally are...." would simply be more appropriate.
Thanks.
Cxsm
5/22/04
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:42 am Post subject: |
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I don't believe in generalizations - they make my head hurt.
There's bad in the best of us and good in the rest.
My man possesses all the wonderful qualities that Igbos are known for; subsequently, I married him.
My man is STUBBORN, demanding, hot-headed, controlling and always overcompensating for being short; subsequently, I will continue to honor my marriage vow. I will continue to love him. I will continue to ask my Heavenly Father to make my man all that he wants him to be. And it is so.
And the boy sends me swingin'! Be patient with brodas. Tell them what you want and need from them. And each day, teach them how to give it to you.
Okay, enough from me today. I'm going home to watch another Naija film!
MrsEze
5/22/04
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