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Don't Settle for Less!Don't Settle for Less!Women, please don't settle for less. Settling for an insecure guy is like courting misery. A guy who'd not bold enough to publicly acknowledge and/or declare that he's in a relationship with a woman, is either NOT in love with her, ashamed of her or embarrassed to be seen with her. But for such an insecure man to pull such a stunt, it takes the cooperation of the woman he's involved with. You can't be a floor mat unless and until you lie flat on the floor for someone to step all over you. Even a smart, beautiful woman can be conned into playing along for whatever reasons or excuses the man has conjured to convince her, but then once a woman is aware it's all a game and a con, it's time for her to tell the man to "put up or shut up!," else it's time for her to dump the guy, except she herself has by now lost her self-esteem and chooses to settle for being treated as LESS important. Life's full of opportunities and there are indeed guys that are willing to respect the women they are dating. It starts with shame and who knows what else it can lead to or where it'll end up. An insecure man who seeks to control begins in subtle ways, but soon enough gains ground to dominate, control and eliminate. Compromise on life issues, but NEVER settle for LESS. (Same advice for guys dating high-powered women.) Cxsm 9th Sept. '03 © Cxsm 2003 All Rights Reserved |
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So true!!!!! |
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