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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 3:13 am Post subject: What is So Special About Nigerian Men? |
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What is So Special About Nigerian Men?
Someone posed this question on one of the websites and I'm curious to find out what you folks think out here.
| Quote: | Dear members
Please assist me. What is so special about Nigerian men? On the internet, I've read about American women who are head over heals over Nigerian men. Some have visited Nigeria for the first time and got married, an Ethiopian girl looking for a Nig. man, Pple looking for jobs in Lagos....????
Is Nigeria the only country in Africa? I need to find out. Possibly get myself a Nigerian man too.
Naija1, I took note of your response regarding Nigerians, their qualities etc. I'm a bit puzzled about the craze out there. It could possibly be that every African is believed to be Nigerian. Please help members, I just need to understand. |
Cxsm
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 3:20 am Post subject: |
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Here are some of the responses that were posted.
| Quote: | Wait a minute, give Nigerian men a chance. Look at all aspects of life, from sport to politics, to academia, to film industry, there are Nigerian men fluorishing.
Not because we are so much better than everyone else, but because we believe that if one wants to do something - it is to do it with the aim of being the best - AMBITION.
That is the watchword here, we have a place to go and go there! Not content with mediocracy, the sky is our goal. If it is sweeping, we must be the best sweeper; if it is sport, the same.
This is the quality that women find attractive, and also we're not bad-looking either! |
And for laughter- another response.
| Quote: | We Nigerian men are the sh**, god darn!
We got the big long long john silver if you know what I mean.
Compared to white guys with little wiwi, 'We' are the champions all over the world.
***** Love maker, Kamasutra specialists, 'We' are the women's doctor all over the world.
That's what is special about Nigerian Men.
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Ok, I married a Nigerian man but not for the reasons listed. I wanted a man that was connected to God and when I met my husband he was exactly what I was looking for. Besides, I adored all African men anyway. Something is definitely unique about you all and I knew when I was 18 (I'm now 27) that I was going to marry an African man. At first people thought I was in love with their accents but it's not that. You all think very differently...not all of you though....
Anyway, I have dated African men from Senegal, Nigeria, Malawi, Zimbabwe, and have sensed a connection. I don't know what it is but it's not all about the "long dong silver". It's about how you are treated with the upmost respect and love. it's about unity.
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Some of you have probably seen this before, but.....
Reasons To Date Naija Men
http://naijapositive.myfastforum.org/about1468.html
Cxsm
1/3/04
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Why Naija Men Are The Bomb
Nigerian men All the Way. Nigerian Men to me are very ambitous people, they are sexy as well. when it is time for me to settle down, i am evetually going to marry a nigerian man, like my mother predicted because they are my people and i can connect with them on many different levels. To me it seems that with Nigerian man, they respect you more better and they value.
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I am African American and married to a Nigerian man. I never sought out to marry a Nigerian man. But, my husband had character traits that had me awe. His manners, way of life, dedication and drive attracted me. He is truly the hardest working man I have ever met!! He beleives in GOD and marriage. He treats me like a queen. I will never down talk African American men but, there are some valuable life lessons they could learn from Nigerian men.
Positivewoman
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well!well!well!
Nigerian men are nice, educated, hard working and intellectually stimulating...... here comes the buts........
when it comes to been romantic on a scale of 1 to 10 i give them a 2.5
some one says they have the long john silver....lol... yea but do they know how to use it... some of them are selfish in bed, they only want to cum and thatz it they really do not give a s*** about their partner, they are so boring it is not even funny.
some of them are so old fashion, no flowers, no chocolate on dates, i mean what do they think this is ? the 40's?
some of them all they ever think about is sex, you as a female can't be friends with them all they think about is how to f*** the s*** out of you which they don't know how to do that very well anyway.
they have what you call a sugar coated mouth, they tell you i will do this and that and this for you, do not ever believe them because all is a LIE.
there are some good ones out there but they are very hard to find once you find that special Nigerian guy hold on to him and do not let him go. enuf.
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| Muskan wrote: | well!well!well!
Nigerian men are nice, educated, hard working and intellectually stimulating...... here comes the buts........
when it comes to been romantic on a scale of 1 to 10 i give them a 2.5
some one says they have the long john silver....lol... yea but do they know how to use it... some of them are selfish in bed, they only want to cum and thatz it they really do not give a s*** about their partner, they are so boring it is not even funny.
some of them are so old fashion, no flowers, no chocolate on dates, i mean what do they think this is ? the 40's?
some of them all they ever think about is sex, you as a female can't be friends with them all they think about is how to f*** the s*** out of you which they don't know how to do that very well anyway.
they have what you call a sugar coated mouth, they tell you i will do this and that and this for you, do not ever believe them because all is a LIE.
there are some good ones out there but they are very hard to find once you find that special Nigerian guy hold on to him and do not let him go. enuf.
Muskan
5/20/04 |
Ouch!
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| Muskan wrote: |
well!well!well!
Nigerian men are nice, educated, hard working and intellectually stimulating...... here comes the buts........
when it comes to been romantic on a scale of 1 to 10 i give them a 2.5
some one says they have the long john silver....lol... yea but do they know how to use it... some of them are selfish in bed, they only want to cum and thatz it they really do not give a s*** about their partner, they are so boring it is not even funny.
some of them are so old fashion, no flowers, no chocolate on dates, i mean what do they think this is ? the 40's?
some of them all they ever think about is sex, you as a female can't be friends with them all they think about is how to f*** the s*** out of you which they don't know how to do that very well anyway.
they have what you call a sugar coated mouth, they tell you i will do this and that and this for you, do not ever believe them because all is a LIE.
there are some good ones out there but they are very hard to find once you find that special Nigerian guy hold on to him and do not let him go. enuf.
Muskan
5/20/04 |
Where have you been picking your men? 
The above described sound like immature and self-absorbed geeks who've spent their lifetime in the lab rather than in real life.
Actually, those from the 40s are probably more romantic, since they believed in courting and wooing women. Now-a-days some men feel they have abundant options and thus do not care to make the effort to care about, let alone cater to their mate's needs, so maybe that's the tree the above described fell from.
Mature men, Nigerians or otherwise who do not require external validation DO what it takes to satisfy their mates, in and out of the boudoir, romantic gestures included.
Romantic Nigerian men do exist, you've just got to find them. Clue - check out their habits on the first date, it's always an indication of what will follow.
Overcompensation on the other hand could indicate a Gigolo is lurking in your immediate personal space. 
Cxsm
5/20/04
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| Muskan wrote: | well!well!well!
Nigerian men are nice, educated, hard working and intellectually stimulating...... here comes the buts........
Muskan
5/20/04 |
Sistah, wazzappening? A broda must have played you. Sh*t happens and you'd best believe that in all races, colors and creed, there are the good, the bad and the ugly versions of men or women.
Maverixz
5/20/04
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