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A True Friend

A fake friend is simply interested in the activities your share. A true friend makes the effort to know or understand you.

A fake friend shares only your interests. A true friend shares your morals and values.

A fake friend promises to visit you when you are bereaved or simply sorrowful, but doesn't. A true friend shows up to console you without asking permission.

A fake friend feigns concern by asking what you need in time of need without any follow-through. A true friend listens to you, assesses your need and actually shows up with what they have ascertained. A shoulder to lean on, prayers, a ride, companionship, material or other needs.

A fake friend borrows stuff from you and never returns them. A true friend knows better than to try and covet what is not theirs.

A fake friend wants to know all about you without reciprocating. A true friend knows friendship is all about reciprocating.

A fake friend will occasionally (or probably often) gossip about you. A true friend knows never to betray your trust and trusts you too.

A fake friend may find your mate attractive and act on it. A true friend will never cross the relationship barrier.

A fake friend will lie to you. A true friend is honest with you.

A fake friend competes with you. A true friend respects and is secure about your differences.

A fake friend shows up only when things are rosy, and avoids you during the rough times. A true friends stands behind you through thick and thin.

A fake friend is always on the receiving end, spiritually, emotionally, materially (and probably physically). A true friend knows friendship is about giving and taking and that this is not only measured by material exchanges.

A fake friend thinks some gifts are not good or 'designer' enough for them and probably recycles them. A true friend values your gift.

A fake friend gives you recycled and used gifts. A true friend gives you gifts they have put thought in and specifically gotten for you.

A fake friend tries to persuade you to be matchmade with some unworthy mate (probably a creep they've dated and abandoned). A true friend recommends only worthy mates and would not harass you into dating a creep.

A fake friend throws a tantrum when you're willing but incapable of meeting their needs. A true friend understands your circumstances and doesn't make unfair demands.

A fake friend would put your life at risk. A true friend will (if necessary) risk their life for you.

Cxsm
21st Jun '07

© Cxsm 2007

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May we be strengthened with the ability, willingness and capabilities to be good ambassadors of Nigeria contributing to its uplifting, rather than its detriment. - Cxsm